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A Necessary Retreat for the Weary Writer

11/22/2021

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I had come to the point of exhaustion. I'd worked diligently to write, submit and connect. But nothing was moving. Was I truly meant to be a writer, or did I imagine it? I needed to get my head together — a clear vision for the road ahead. Was I only spinning my wheels?
Then, the opportunity to join the team for the first ever writer’s retreat at Mount Hermon Conference Center near San Jose, CA, presented itself. For years a stellar writing conference was held at that lovely wooded venue, but it was time to forge another path. Writers attend conferences often. It's a place to learn new skills, be inspired, practice the craft, create new connections and meet with publishers and agents. But a retreat is none of that. No busyness. No running to the next workshop, feverishly writing down notes that will be sure to translate into a published book. No feeling of panic as we meet with an industry professional.
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A Retreat means Rest and Refreshment

So what is a retreat? It's rest, refreshment, and time alone with God, finding your next right step in this sometimes frustrating journey towards authorship. And yes, it can be about connections—with fellow writers on the same path. But the main focus is to listen. What is God telling me about my next step? Your life? My relationship with Him? The great thing about the Mount Hermon Retreat was the freedom to choose where my focus would be. No pressure to attend any of the soul-care and craft sessions or gather with other like-minded writers. I could spend the entire weekend communing with my Creator on the many paths through the towering redwoods or pray along the labyrinth.
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Listening to God’s Voice

So, I listened. In the labyrinth. In the chapel. On the forest path among the towering redwoods, feeling quite small. And I found answers to three questions:

  • ​Do I continue submitting my MG historical novels, which have had no bites in year's, or do I continue to revise the three I have, hoping that someday, my genre will come back into popularity? (Historical fiction for kids is a hard sell these days. No magical or sci-fi elements.)
  • Do I continue with writing and submitting teen devotionals?
  • Do I begin my travel writing journey by sending queries and writing articles? (Even in Covid times, there are places to travel—yay!)

In the mix was an Instagram Makover class, Author Accelerator Book Coaching Certification course, and my newly joined Hope*Writers community. I assumed, since I purchase them, I needed to continue with the instruction and connection.

These are the answers I received:

  • ​No, stop submitting your MG historical novels, but continue to revise them.
  • Yes! Send in your second teen devotional, and if both are rejected, move on to something else.
  • Yes! As you travel, document your journey and query a few magazines.

I also had a pull (not totally surprising, since this is why I entered the writing field) towards memoir. I have lived an adventurous life, with ups and downs, challenges and disappointments. But God used those times to draw me to Himself.

He also made it clear as I contemplated my career in the chapel, that my words are like seeds sown in the world. Someday, they will grow to touch hearts with the truths of God's Word and eventually change lives. I can't do it, but He can—through me!
Have you taken time away for any reason to get your priorities in order? Or maybe you just needed a rest. Either way, we all need the opportunity to pull away from the busyness and listen. You'll be surprised what God will whisper in your ear.
6 Comments
Jetta Allen
11/23/2021 12:34:15 pm

Jarm, what a beautifully written post. For Christians called to write, prayer and reflections are essential.

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Jarm Del Boccio link
11/23/2021 08:04:18 pm

Thanks so much, Jetta! I'm sure you would have loved the retreat. Maybe we can get our peeps together in NC for a similar event!

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Marti Brown
11/25/2021 06:38:16 am

Absolutely beautiful, thank you for sharing this!

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Jarm Del Boccio link
11/26/2021 08:43:55 am

You are entirely welcome. Marti—thanks for stopping by!

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Janice D Green link
11/29/2021 12:49:07 pm

A much needed reminder to not allow the rat race of everyday life overwhelm us, but to get away to commune with God. This applies not only to writing but to all of life.

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Jarm Del Boccio link
11/29/2021 02:21:20 pm

So true, Janice! Thanks for the reminder to slow down and listen to God’s voice.

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