<![CDATA[JARM DEL BOCCIO, AUTHOR AND BOOK COACH - My Blog]]>Tue, 23 Dec 2025 20:52:14 -0600Weebly<![CDATA[Advent: Waiting and watching]]>Sun, 21 Dec 2025 21:52:35 GMThttps://www.jarmdelboccio.com/blog/advent-waiting-and-watching

The Advent Candle: Waiting and Watching

I've been reading two Advent books this year: Good News of Great Joy by John Piper, and The Art of Living in Advent by Sylvie Vanhoozer. The first, reminds us simply why God sent His son as a baby over 2,000 years ago. He is a gift! But a gift needs to be received and opened before enjoying it. Have you received God’s precious gift of a relationship with God’s Son Jesus?

The second, by Vanhoozer, relates the coming of the Christ Child as anticipated in her home in Provence, France, where they prepare the crèche with local foliage, and add each day of Advent, a santon or little saint in everyday dress representing a variety of townspeople and their humble professions.

Each one of us, no matter who we are, can celebrate the coming of the baby who will someday become King. But first, Jesus needed to grow up as a perfect man, yet God, to be sacrificed in our place so we could live in freedom from the penalty of sin. What an honor to be a part of God’s family, and someday, live in Heaven with the King of Kings.

So What Are We Waiting For?

Years ago, Jewish men and women, who knew the prophecy, waited for the Messiah. Most thought he would be born a King, so they missed him. The Messiah, born as a baby of a poor family? Growing up to die on a cross? A man who claimed to be the son of God? Yes!

They didn't realize the first time he came, it would be to save the world from the penalty of sin. He will someday, come back as King to bring his children, who have received his precious gift, home to Heaven.

That comes back to the five Advent candles labeled as the image above: Hope, Love, Joy, Peace and Christ, the Reason we celebrate Christmas. We often forget that His name is in the holiday. What are we waiting for—in our lives and in the world?

HOPE for

Children who are safe and happy
Enough money to pay the bills
Healthy Body & Minds

Because Jesus was raised from the dead and conquered death, we, His children have hope that we will live forever with Him in Heaven.

LOVE for

My labradoodle
A soulmate
The perfect job

Jesus gave His life so we can live—the ultimate act of love.

JOY in

A vacation to refresh us
Appreciative and obedient children
A dress that lifts my spirits

It's not dependent on our circumstances, but knowing God works all things together for our good.

PEACE in

Our homes
Our jobs
Our hearts

Jesus is the ultimate Prince of Peace who will one day return to destroy death and the devil and bring peace to the world.

CHRIST

Our Good Shepherd
Son of God and Savior
Light of the World

He is the only one who can satisfy our deepest longings.

What Gift Can We Bring to Jesus?

Jesus has given us so much: eternal life and peace for those who have accepted His gift of salvation. What can we give Him in return? Does Jesus have a wish list? If He did, He would want our hearts—our undivided attention and love. A famous poet penned these words which were made into a carol, In the Bleak Mid-winter. The last stanza says:

“What can I give Him,
Poor as I am?
If I were a shepherd
I would bring a lamb,
If I were a wise man
I would do my part,
Yet what I can I give Him,
Give my heart.”

-Christina Rossetti

Does Jesus have your heart?

]]><![CDATA[Chasing Autumn Leaves]]>Tue, 21 Oct 2025 00:44:59 GMThttps://www.jarmdelboccio.com/blog/chasing-autumn-leaves

A New England Autumn

What a surprise when my stepson offered to house us for five days in his ski lodge to enjoy the Fall scenery. Such a gift!

It wouldn't be such a big deal if we were still living in the Midwest. But now, relocated in coastal North Carolina, we are surrounded by piney woods and not many deciduous trees. So fall is a non-event. Except for cooler temps which I appreciate. It's lovely to pull out my favorite pullover when the weather changes. Although in our area, we were warned to have access to all our clothing no matter the season, since temps could change overnight.

A Muted Autumn Display

So imagine the joy of stepping out of the plane, and experiencing a rainy, cool climate in Connecticut, which later turned into cold, dry and brisk days and 35 degree nights as we settled into our ski lodge in Vermont the next day. Above is a snapshot out our living room window. Unfortunately, New England (especially Vermont) had experienced a summer drought, so some trees lost their leaves early, and others did not have the vibrancy typical of the season in that area.

But I was not disappointed! The muted brilliance of the autumn leaves was still a treat when compared to a coastal NC fall. I was a happy camper.

Stowe, Vermont

We visited a quintessential New England town surrounded by the Green Mountains, known for their ski runs. The streets were packed with visitors from all over the US and Canada (and most likely, the world). Below are a few photos of our lovely tour of the town.

The Von Trapp Family Lodge

What a joy to discover the von Trapp Family Lodge nestled in the Green Mountains, which reminded them of their dear home in Austria. Escaping their beloved country in 1939, spending almost two years touring the world and performing as a family to make ends meet. When they were invited to Stowe, Vermont, they were overjoyed to find a place that looked like their home back in Europe, and decided to put down roots. They did, inviting friends and family to visit. As more visitors came, the family enlarged their home and eventually built a lodge to house them, and the rest is history!

Rolling hills filled with sheep, winding trails deep in the woods, and a lodge patterned after mountain inns from home completed the scene. Enjoy the pics below. . .

Maple Syrup in Montpelier

When one comes to Vermont, a trip to Morse's Maple Syrup farm is a must. The weather in the spring must be just right. Not to warm or cold and not too windy. It takes many buckets of sap to make one gallon, which is why it's so expensive! But, boy, is it good! Too bad we traveled with only a backpack this time. No room for even a small bottle. We did sample a few intensities of maple syrup (no longer called ‘grades’) and some with with added cinamon, jalapeno and bourbon. A little snippet of our tour below. . .

I hope you enjoyed my little armchair tour of Vermont. Have you visited New England? If so, what is your favorite spot? Let me know in the comments below!

]]><![CDATA[Travel as inspiration]]>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 19:23:06 GMThttps://www.jarmdelboccio.com/blog/travel-as-inspiration

Ancient homes made with stone line the streets of Hvar, Croatia

A Bucket List Dream Come True

For a long time, Croatia has been on my bucket list. Why? I'm not really sure. First of all, I've never set foot on the Balkan Peninsula. That in itself intrigues me. Then, many friends who have returned from this sunny clime sing its praises. Thirdly, I discovered through 23andMe that I am 5% Balkan. All three became the inspiration for our trip to Croatia and Montenegro (which translated means “black mountain” due to the evergreens that once graced the mountains surrounding the city of Kotor).

After Dan finally renewed his passport (my only wish this past Christmas), we were able to travel again as a couple. It had been over six years—far too long. Perusing the website of our favorite travel agency, Adventure Life, I discovered a Clipper Ship Tour (think pirate ship) of Croatia and Montenegro, leaving from a Venetian port.

I am hooked on cruises, but not the 9-story mall-in-the-middle kind. Small sailing ships, like scooners (sailboats) that hold 87 passengers, or a large clipper ship that serves around 237 people are more my style. It’s less overwhelming, and you can usually feel the motion of the waves when the sails are furled and the winds are strong. Unfortunately for us, the Star Clipper never raised its sails due to low winds.

Nonetheless, it was still an adventure. But first, we flew to Venice and stayed overnight, so as not to miss our embarkation time. Well, this beautiful city is an island, which poses many problems (unless you are willing to spend over $120 for water transport to your hotel, which most likely, at that price, is off one of the canals).

We decided to take the Alilaguna, a public boat taxi specially suited to transport you from the Marco Polo airport to the Island, which cost us a mere €18 (around $21). Then, we walked to the Hotel Flora, which was a ten-minute walk without dragging luggage. Even though we had only carry-ons, we needed to cross two bridges with many steps. Tired and hot, we reached our destination, grateful for the air conditioning that refreshed us as we walked into the lobby.

One of the many canal bridges we crossed

Hotel Flora in Venice

A lovely Italianate decor with a charming garden where we enjoyed breakfast the next morning. . .

Venetian Bridges

The Rialto Bridge— one of four spanning the Grand Canal.

The Doge's Palace

The lion is a symbol of the Republic of Venice, ruled by the Great Council, which had dominion for hundreds of years over the city and Islands in the Adriatic, including what is now known as Croatia and Montenegro (Balkan Coast). All artwork was related to law, truth, justice, and God’s Word. Rather overwhelming!

My favorite, the Lion’s Mouth: citizens would write down a crime they witnessed and place it in this slot leading to the Doge’s quarters. He would then decide how to act upon the information given.

The Prison Quarters at the Doge’s Palace

One of the most impressionable experiences of the tour was our visit to the prison complex. Down, down, down, to the depths of the earth we walked, feeling the damp coolness surround us. It was okay for us tourists, but I thought of real prisoners of the past who made their way to a cell that would hold them until their fate was decided.

What were their thoughts? Remorse? Anger? Fear? As we arrive at the inside walkway of the Bridge of Sighs, we looked out (the last row of pics). This was the last view the captives would have of their beloved Venice and a life of freedom.

Caffè Florian

Even though the prices were high, and the cover fee €7 to enjoy the orchestra on the terrace, I had to indulge in a visit to the historic Caffe Florian, founded in 1720. Waitstaff in white shirts and bow ties brought our light lunch of simple sandwiches and Aperol Spritz which has been a trademark here in Venice for hundreds of years, so I had to try this liquid historic aperitif with its bittersweet flavor (orangey), aromatic herbs, and light alcohol content meant to whet one’s appetite for dinner. You see it above left. Below is a video giving you an idea of Caffè Florian's ambiance.

Well, I will leave you hanging in suspense until my next blogpost, unless you are my friend on FB. There you will find many reels of our trip. Our clipper ship tour of Croatia and Montenegro is next. I hope it will be inspiring. What would you like to see in person as you perused my images? Let me know below!

]]><![CDATA[Post-writer’s conference overwhelm]]>Wed, 11 Jun 2025 02:39:50 GMThttps://www.jarmdelboccio.com/blog/post-writers-conference-overwhelm

Blue Ridge Mountain Christian Writer’s Conference

The Blue Ridge Mountain Christian Writer’s Conference has been in my rearview mirror for a month now. Wow. I had quite a different experience than I did two years ago. Why? Mostly because my attitude changed. Or maybe, it was just the right time to move forward. Either way, I am grateful—for many reasons.

The venue was stunning as you see above. Although it rained every day of the 5 day conference, occasionally the clouds would part and allow us to view the mountain range. Despite the rain, the attendee's hearts were expectant and joyful as they interacted with fellow writers, staff, agents, and editors.

There were various reasons why each of us were present. Some hoped to win awards. Others had been praying for an agent to represent them, or an editor to publish their work. Just a chance for someone to notice their creative efforts would be appreciated. Others had come to present a class or workshop. Then there was the bookstore, full of published dreams for hopeful writers to read.

This Year at BRMCWC Was Different

I wasn't overwhelmed. Well, maybe a bit the first day. But a guardian angel (a fellow attendee) walked me along a path from the auditorium to the cafeteria then to Mountain Laurel, where those all-important 15 minute appointments with agents, editors and seasoned authors were held. Not only did it help me get from place to place quicker, but the path was shielded from the rain. Yay!

This was a blessing since my head shot appointment was on the rainiest day of all! Christina Custodio made me feel beautiful and relaxed—the key to great photos. But let’s not forget the skills of the photographer. They are no light matter. Below is my ID mug shot. Even that one turned out well without touch up!

What Does a Week at a Writer’s Conference Look Like?

Although I submitted my nonfiction work-in-progress for my silver-haired sisters, Flourishing & Fragrant, to the Foundations Awards (for unpublished works), I did not win. When I discovered there were over 700 entries, and only approximately 150 winners, I was not disappointed. I also was relieved I didn't need to make that journey up and down the stage and back to my seat. But I was ready, just in case.

When one of the agents I had singled out to meet with did not come to the conference, my heart sank. But I reminded myself at that moment, that God was still in control, and He had a reason. I needed to trust in His sovereignty. Soon, I was at peace.

Thankfully, I did my homework ahead of time, and narrowed my choices down to three: two agents and one editor. But, the next morning, my guardian angel came to my rescue again and suggested I see another editor I had not considered, who had been added in at the last moment—and she had an appointment available. So, I signed up!

I want to mention here that for those writers just getting their toes wet in the publication waters, visiting an agent or editor is not recommended. Seasoned authors can give you insights into their publishing journey and tips to navigating that confusing and frustrating path. Choosing an author who writes in your genre will be more helpful as he/she can give you specific advice..

Faculty were asked to sit at different tables during lunch and dinner to allow discussion for those who could not get an appointment. God directed me through my Aussie author friend Penny, to sit at her table. But because the only open seat was at the other end, I sat next to an acquisitions editor whom I had not considered. But God was working. In a very natural way, the editor asked what I wrote, so I gave him my one sheet summary of my book, bio and contact info. No fear, no worry, and no expectations. Just peace!

My preparation for the conference: business cards, one sheets, and that all important schedule with my preferred classes marked!

What I enjoyed most was interacting with writers at different stages of their journey. Some were seasoned writers and speakers, and others who had a passion to write and were looking for insights and practical help with their chosen genre. There were historical and contemporary fiction authors, devotional and Bible Study creators, and nonfiction writers of all kinds, eager to glean from more experienced authors.

We chatted, gave each other encouragement or advice, and exchanged business cards in hopes to stay in touch via social media. Those that had attended the conference gave handy tips on navigating the grounds and schedule for the wide-eyed newbies. Writers met in classes, the Clouds Café, in the elevator and while waiting for the keynote to begin. We were all there for one reason—to grow in the gift God had given us as we determine His next steps. Sometimes that step is publication, navigating that intimidating chore we call marketing, or, quietly writing in our artist’s chair, sensitive to the Holy Spirit’s leading.

I was thrilled to find two of my Author Accelerator Book Coaching practicum students at the conference. Lindy (below) is a fellow historical fiction author who placed in the Foundations Awards for her Regency Romance novel from the Vicars & Viscounts Series. Lindy is quite the prolific author and I was proud of her achievement!

There are No Guarantees in the Writer’s Life

There was a bookstore to peruse, full of books written by presenters and attendees; a fun night of giggles, enjoying writers who paraded across the stage dressed as their chosen genre and an Selah and Foundations awards night for published and unpublished authors. Everyone was given the opportunity to shine.

But alas, not everyone did. I'm sure more than one person (me) was disappointed. There are no guarantees in this challenging profession. I remind people of the ‘starving artist’ syndrome, not only a reality in past centuries, but also found today. As I discovered two years ago, having an agent or editor request your proposal or manuscript does not automatically mean your work will be published. But it does mean this: your work caught the interest of someone knowledgable in the field, and wants to see more. That's progress! Hopefully, this blogpost from the Blue Ridge Conference, Beware of the Post-Conference Writing Blues will be an encouragement to you.

Where Was the Conference Overwhelm?

So where is the overwhelm I mentioned? For me, it was not at the conference. I had peace during all my appointments and truly enjoyed meeting up with agents and editors, knowing they were people too. I could rest in knowing God held my writing future in His hands, and nothing could thwart what He deemed best.

My overwhelm came when I returned home with four requests for my two proposals: my middle-grade historical fiction and nonfiction for seasoned women. After sending a thank you email to each one, I began the process of revising my proposals and MG novel, since both agents asked me to add a bit more detail to the proposals which would help in the selection process. In two more weeks, I was ready.

The second overwhelm was realizing if both my proposals are accepted, and I am chosen for representation, I will be working full steam ahead for many years to come. That literally stopped me in my tracks. Is this really what I've been praying for? Is this the life I've been wanting? Up to this time, my writing has been done in between the many responsibilities at church and neighborhood, let alone dealing with a body that is slowly deteriorating due to arthritis.

But then, I had to remind myself (again) that God is sovereign and will not bring anything into my life that I cannot handle with His strength. I only need to trust. No need to worry. No place for overwhelm. Only peace and contentment.

It’s All About Jesus

These miniature images of Jesus were planted all over the conference grounds in nooks, crannies and crevices. The 'instigator' of these images wanted the conference attendees to be reminded of the fact that Jesus is with us wherever we go. And He has a unique plan for each of us.

Are you a writer hoping to find an agent or editor for your precious manuscript? I trust that my words have been an encouragement to you. Never lose hope. God knows the right time to bring your writing gift to the world. While you are waiting, consider writing devotionals to inspire your readers with God’s grace and mercy.

How Can I Help You?

Here is a link to a list of Christian Writer’s Conferences for your perusal. I would highly recommend that you attend one at least every other year if possible. Many have scholarships for those who cannot afford the fee, but are serious about their writing.

If you are struggling in your writing journey, let me know below how I can help. At best, I can pray for you!

]]><![CDATA[Half-truths by Carol Baldwin]]>Fri, 11 Apr 2025 19:46:59 GMThttps://www.jarmdelboccio.com/blog/half-truths-by-carol-baldwin

A YA Historical Novel set in the 1950s—the Jim Crow Era

I admire perseverance. Especially when it comes from a seasoned writer. Carol Baldwin is one of those. Her debut novel, Half-Truths, took 18 years of hard writing and editing before it caught the eye of a publisher. And I'm so proud of her!

I first met Carol at a Christian writers conference in Greenville, SC. As I chatted with her about the writer’s journey, she invited me to join their blogging team at Write2Ignite, an online organization focused on helping children’s writers move forward in their careers.

As I was a middle-grade historical fiction writer, I gained so much insight into the genre and the craft of writing. Little did I know that Carol had a story brewing that would take years to publish (and I'm sure, neither did she). But, she persevered.

Growing up as a northern white child in the 60s, I had no idea what was going on in the South. Until I read Half-Truths, I continued to be isolated from the harsh realities of racial prejudice. This well-researched, compelling, and heart-wrenching YA historical fiction follows Kate as she comes to grip with her own prejudices and moves forward to tell the whole truth—no matter the cost!

So, I am honored to feature her in my April blog post. Half-Truths has given me a personal in-depth look from the view of a relatable young MC, challenging my prejudices as a new resident of this beautiful state of North Carolina, where the story is set. Young or old, you don't want to miss this hard-to-put-down novel! But first a professional review and the trailer to set the scene. . .

Midwest Book Review

Synopsis: In Half-Truths, Carol Baldwin masterfully weaves a narrative that transcends time, inviting young readers to explore the intricate tapestry of 1950s North Carolina. At the heart of this interesting tale is Kate Dinsmore, a spirited 15-year-old aspiring to become a journalist. Her journey, filled with the challenges of her family's modest means and the hope of her move to her affluent grandparents' home in Charlotte, is one that many young readers can relate to. However, the world she enters is one of stark contrasts, where societal expectations loom large, and the unspoken truths of her lineage surface.

Through her growing friendship with Lillian, the maid who becomes both confidante and kin, Kate's journey is not just about ambition; it's a profound exploration of identity and belonging. This novel is a valuable resource for educators and parents interested in literature that addresses social issues. It invites readers to reflect on the complexities of race, privilege, and the often-painful quest for authenticity as they unearth family secrets that intertwine their fates. Baldwin tackles these themes with sensitivity and insight, encouraging a dialogue about the realities of our past and the courage required to challenge the status quo.

Critique: Half-Truths is more than just a story; it is a call to action for young minds to question, to seek the truth, and to forge their paths amidst the half-truths that life presents. This book promises to resonate deeply with readers, inspiring them to confront their truths and understand the world around them with greater clarity and compassion. It's a powerful reminder that they can shape their own narratives and make a difference in the world.

Carol Baldwin has skillfully woven a tapestry of storytelling that resonates deeply with readers. Her latest work is a heartfelt exploration of the complexities of friendship, a theme that is universally experienced, and the societal pressures that often threaten to unravel it.
The characters she has brought to life are not merely figures on a page but embody grace, resilience, and authenticity. As they navigate the tumultuous waters of societal expectations, their unwavering bond becomes a beacon of hope and inspiration.

This story invites us to reflect on our relationships and the strength found in unity, reminding us that genuine friendship can withstand even the harshest storms. Prepare to be captivated by Baldwin's poignant prose and the profound messages that linger long after turning the last page."

Half-Truths Q&A

JARM: I understand that birthing this book has been a long journey. How long had it taken you? What gave you the idea for writing Half-Truths? Tell me about your research and writing process.

CAROL: From beginning to end it’s taken 18 years! I began with the idea of a farm girl who feels like a fish out of water when she moves to the high society neighborhood of Myers Park in Charlotte, NC.

I wanted it to be an historical novel because I was curious about the history that no one talks about—the history that figuratively lay under people’s feet as they walked around Charlotte. Unfortunately, my city tends to pull down homes and businesses and put up new buildings without anyone thinking about what used to be there. I suppose you can say I was looking for Charlotte’s forgotten history. I was also curious about what it was like before the civil rights period of the 60’s.

I think that both of these answers reflect who I am: a transplanted Yankee who came to Charlotte, NC in 1986. I was the fish out of water in a new city in the South—both of which I knew little about.

There were three main sources for my information: books and articles I read, people I interviewed, and places I went to. First, I read about Charlotte, about the 1950s, about the conflict in Korea; about fashion, people, and the news. You name it, I wanted to know my historical setting as well as possible. In the early stages, I read articles from The Charlotte Observer on microfilm. More recently, I’ve read stories archived online which is a lot easier! I also found information in other periodicals and on the internet.

Second, I interviewed close to 100 people who lived in Charlotte during the period or had heard stories from family members. Bits and pieces of their stories got woven into mine. Often it was hard to figure out what not to include!

Third, I visited places. In the End Notes of Half-Truths, I talk about visiting a former Rosenwald School in Charlotte. The personal stories of the two men I met and a picture on the school’s wall were pivotal in creating my plot. I visited the remains of an African American cemetery less than a half mile away from an upscale mall and restaurants. That cemetery was part of the inspiration for the cemetery scene in Half-Truths. I visited the Second Ward Alumni House and met alumni Vermelle Ely and Price Davis. Over the course of many conversations, they showed me how important their Black high school was to the community and gave me a picture of what life was like for Black teenagers in the 50’s in Charlotte.

JARM: Did you run across any stumbling blocks in your research? How did you get past them?

CAROL: Early on I decided to follow the example of my friend Kathleen Burkinshaw and use newspaper headlines as chapter titles. That proved to be much more difficult than I anticipated. It took me hours and hours to dig up headlines that matched the content of each chapter. Initially, the story was going to take place in 1953. When I changed it to 1950-1951 I had dozens of headlines that didn’t fit! I also wanted headlines from The Charlotte Post, Charlotte’s Black newspaper, but the paper wasn’t on microfilm or digitalized. I found one headline in a Black newspaper in Chicago that I used. I found the headlines through perseverance. And when I couldn’t find one that fit, I made it up!

JARM: What message do you want readers to take away from your book?

CAROL: Too often half-truths, prejudice, and harmful ways of thinking and behaving are passed from one generation to the next. This has the potential to build walls between people. The first step towards reconciliation is acknowledging wrongdoing and moving forward with open, respectful communication.

The theme of half-truths runs throughout the book. Kate not only uncovers deceptions that have been passed on in her family, but she also comes to grips with her half-truths. Like Kate, We must face the lies we’ve told others or ourselves.

Lillian, an important secondary character, is a teenage Black maid who works for Kate’s grandmother. The two girls bond over Kate’s goat, and while building that friendship, Kate frequently stumbles. In a major turning point, Kate alienates Lillian by publicly saying a half-truth about her. It is only when Kate admits what she did and communicates her genuine regret to Lillian that their friendship is reconciled.

As the story progresses, Kate discovers secrets about her family’s ancestry. She wants to talk about them to her stern grandmother— the lynchpin in the puzzle—but she’s afraid. At the end of the book, she broaches the topic as the two plant a garden. Kate’s hunch about her ancestry is validated as she breaks through walls that have existed for decades. She is then freer to speak her voice and move forward without debilitating fear.

JARM: What advice do you have for those neck-deep in research, wondering if there will ever be an end to the edits and rewrites?

CAROL: If you are passionate about your story and have received positive feedback on your project’s feasibility and writing skills—don’t give up! You have to love your story and believe in it to power through countless rewriting and edits. Feel free to take time off to write something (small) to give your mind a break —but realize that to finish your novel, you simply have to keep going. “Butt in chair,” is always good advice!

Life Magazine featuring Charlotte Debutantes in 1951. Read Half-Truths to discover the significance of this picture!

Book Giveaway!

You have until April 30th to enter the giveaway for a copy of Half-Truths. Simply comment on the post below, and tell me what intrigues you about this story. I will draw a name from the responses below, and notify them via email. Make sure you include your email address within the tagline as requested for me to see. The public cannot see your address.

Carol Baldwin’s debut YA historical novel, HALF-TRUTHS, (Monarch Educational Services, April 2025) takes place in Charlotte in 1950. She has presented at many educators and writing conferences and is published widely in newspapers and magazines. She co-publishes Talking Story, a newsletter for educators and media specialists. She holds a B.S. in Mental Health and a M.S. in Community Counseling. Before turning to writing for children, Carol published Friendship Counseling: Biblical Foundations for Helping Others and Teaching the Story: Fiction Writing in Grades 4-8. She has been a SCBWI member since before there was an “I” in the name and coordinated the SCBWI-Carolinas blog for many years. When she isn’t writing or blogging, you’ll find her gardening, exercising, or reading books with one of her nine grandchildren. Please connect with her at https://linktr.ee/carolbaldwin .

Readers can find the book here:
Amazon
Park Road Books. orders@parkroadbooks.com (local indie bookstore—order from here and it’ll come autographed!)
Barnes & Noble
Bookshop

]]><![CDATA[The Heart Changer Returns]]>Sat, 25 Jan 2025 01:24:44 GMThttps://www.jarmdelboccio.com/blog/the-heart-changer-returns

Jarm Del Boccio, author of The Heart Changer

It's been a while since I've posted about my middle-grade biblical fiction, The Heart Changer. But February is the perfect month to mention it. I have 50 reviews now (if you are one of my reviewers, thank you!) and have had quite a few interviews both video and written. What an honor!

The Heart Changer Q&A

Here are a few questions from a Q&A a couple of years back. It gives you a good sense of the book and my reason for writing it:

What inspired you to write The Heart Changer?

I have a soft spot for kids in the Bible who have no name and backstory, but have made a huge impact on the people around them. With The Heart Changer, Naaman’s wife’s servant girl came to mind from 2 Kings 5. So, I gave Miriam a name AND a feasible backstory! I try to stay as close to the historical account as possible. Since my passion is to ‘breathe new life into the pages of history’ I delight in the ‘what-ifs’ and bring the story to life so children can relate to the Bible characters in a fresh way.

Tell us about the themes found in the book.

There are many: Hope in the face of despair — The power of forgiveness — God uses our trials to grow us into His likeness — He works all things together for good — Our lives are like a tapestry: we see the tangled underside, but God views it from the top, beautifully woven with purpose and depth.

How can this book equip parents to guide their children into a love of God and the Bible?

Not only is it a Biblical event found in 2 Kings 5, but its main character is a middle-grader, whose life was full of sorrow and angst, but her heart was changed by God so she could partner with Him on a very important mission that is even named in the NT in Luke 4:27. Kids can see that biblical characters go though struggles just as they do. They can know He loves them, and will use them to make a difference in people’s lives. Kids can be on mission with God! It makes the Bible real to them.

Do you know of a middle-grader who seeks to be on mission with God? The Heart Changer will inspire them!

What Would My Main Character Say?

Here are a few questions from Novel Pastimes Blog that I "asked" my main character, Miriam. What kind of girl was she? In a way, she was very much like me, and looked like my daughter, above. To read the entire set of questions, click on Olivia's image above.

What is your heart’s deepest desire, Miriam?

I know I can be selfish and hard-hearted at times, especially when it comes to chores. Obedience isn't easy, especially when I have to put aside MY wants and do the things my Ima has assigned to me. Although I love my baby brother, taking care of him is a full-time job. I can't go out and play on the hills with Jonas and my other friends when I’m responsible for him.

I wished—no—I prayed I’d learn to be unselfish, not always wanting my own way. But that meant Jehovah God had to discipline me because He loves me. But I wasn't ready for what the future held—how it came about. I wanted my light to shine for Jehovah, no matter where I was, so when I was captured and sold to Naaman, the captain of the Syrian army, I learned the hard way. But, in the end, I made a difference in my master’s household. They now believe in the one true God!

What are you most afraid of?

Losing my family and my home has been my greatest fear. They meant more to me than anything —well, except for our Abba Father in Heaven! But I held onto hope in those dark days of captivity. I discovered if you have hope, you have everything you need!

Do you know of a middle-grader who needs a dose of Hope? It's a perfect gift for Valentine's Day!

Here are a few images relating to The Heart Changer and my book launch in 2019. . .

The Heart Changer Trailer

Have you seen the trailer for The Heart Changer? If not, click on the arrow below:

The Heart Changer is Now On Audible!

Click on the image below to find the audiobook. It's well narrated and captures the story beautifully!

The Heart Changer Reviews

Testimonies like these (above and below) make the challenging journey to authorship well worth it!

Why Do I Write?

Well, it's surely not for fame and fortune. I would be sorely disappointed! No, it's for the opportunity to encourage and inspire young minds with historic and biblical characters who, because they had courage to do what was right, can be heroic examples to follow. Even the most ordinary kid can make a difference in the world with the help of God.

An Inspiring Book for the Middle-grader in Your Life

Valentine's Day is a good excuse to get a good book in the hands of a middle-grader who loves history, adventure and an inspiring story that will stick with them for a long time. The Heart Changer will help them to see the account of Naaman's wife's servant girl from 2 Kings 5 in a whole new light! Click on the image above to order The Heart Changer.

Question: Which book did you find inspiring as a young reader? Or how about now? Read any books lately that have inspired you to live a more faith-filled life? Let me know in the comments below, or reply to this email.

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!

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https://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/visit/cornwall/lanhydrock/the-history-of-lanhydrock

Lanhydrock House

Lanhydrock Country House

“The Lanhydrock estate has a fascinating history that encompasses wars, political scandals and a fire that devastated large parts of the house.” - quote from www.nationaltrust.org.uk/

I couldn't have said it better myself. Touring this estate took the good part of a day, even as we were barred from sections under construction during our visit. One thing I love about historic houses, is the ability to eavesdrop on a era gone by, and catch a glimpse of what life was like centuries ago. This home, owned by the Robartes family dates back three hundred years. Although most of what we toured was from the 1800s.

In some ways, life was simpler—for the upper class. But it was just the opposite for the servants. There were a few conveniences but on the whole, day to day living was, well, a chore. Below are a few photos of the living quarters inside this spacious country house.

Life in a Cornwall Country House

The living quarters were well-appointed, and I took note of the bright, colorful environment for the children, which would have enticed them to follow their creative bent. Enjoy these images below. . .

The Vast Gardens of Lanhydrock House

Of course, with every country house in the UK, there is sure to be expansive gardens, and Lanhydrock is no exception. Feast your eyes on these lovely grounds.

I Couldn't resist a Cornish Pasty

No, I couldn't. Even though I'm gluten and dairy-intolerant, I could not resist a quintessential mainstay of a miner’s lunchbox that is easy to eat with one hand without utensils (if none were available). I mean, how could I visit Cornwall without this tasty treat? Well, my knees soon told me it was a bad idea. They swelled, and I had a tough time walking back the half mile to the entrance of the park. Lesson learned.

Trebah Gardens of Cornwall

“Trebah Garden is a sub-tropical paradise with a stunning coastal backdrop. One of the Great Gardens of Cornwall and rated among the 80 finest gardens in the world.” - quote from https://www.trebahgarden.co.uk/

Not much else I can say about this stunning garden. We wandered down paths and across bridges for a couple of hours, enjoying the beauty of summer flowers. The Hydrangeas were in full bloom -- some as large as my face! The photos below say it all.

Trebah Beach in WW2

“During World War II the beach would have looked somewhat different with 7,500 US soldiers leaving for Normandy for D-Day in June 1944.“ quote from https://www.cornwalls.co.uk/

Hard to believe a beach extending from a lovely serene garden could play a part in conquering the enemy in that hard-fought war! You can read about the details of this historic event below.

Cornwall Captured My Heart

Cornwall certainly made a deep impression on me. I can see why British citizens looking for a quieter life away from the big cities find their home in this spectacular county. Not only is it surrounded by the ocean and has plentiful beaches, Cornwall is known for its artist communities. Who wouldn't be inspired to paint, draw, or recreate these scenes in every possible media?

Taking a Break From My Writing Routine

Last month I had robotic total knee replacement, and although I am doing well, it has caused me to slow down a bit and take a break from my normal writing routine, and thus I will be blogging every other month.

I am writing a book tentatively titled: Flourishing and Fragrant: Living an Abundant Life in Your Silver Years with Joy and Purpose. It's been slow going, since so many things are getting in the way. In the coming months, I want to concentrate on writing my third chapter, and also create a digital course on the topic.

I'd like to know how many of my readers are in that category, and are struggling with the changes aging brings. If so, I want to hear from you! Tell me what your biggest challenge is in this season of your life. I'd also like to know if you would benefit by more blogposts on finding joy in the journey of aging. Does a digital course interest you?

Let me know in the comments below!

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